How We Can Be Our Own Boss in an Instant!

As we go through life, we are all learning how to be boss lady. “Boss lady” is the person who is the boss at any job. It’s women that we see that found her way to the top. Which boss lady do you admire? Say what you will about the Kardashians but have you ever considered, Kim Kardashian-West’s mother, Kris Jenner. Now imagine for a moment what Kris Jenner normally wears. Blazers and Suits and switching from black and white and black and white again. I am not criticising her style, I am saying that even in the first image of her in our minds, it is easy to picture her in a pants suit. Now, Kris Jenner was a major factor in Kim and all of the Kardashian/Jenner success because Kris Jenner was managing her daughters. As a boss lady, she has her pants suit attire, fashion, and the slight smirk on point. It appears that when the cameras come on, she knows how to make herself a boss.

I am not criticising her style, I am saying that even in the first image of her in our minds, it is easy to picture her in a pants suit. Now, Kris Jenner was a major factor in Kim and all of the Kardashian/Jenner success because Kris Jenner was managing her daughters. As a boss lady, she has her pants suit attire, fashion, and the slight smirk on point. It appears that when the cameras come on, she knows how to make herself a boss.

What does a boss look like?

If cameras are turning on to us are we able to be the boss lady.  Of course! Anyone with an Instagram or Facebook account can turn the camera’s on themselves and show off their boss lady persona. We all have the pictures on our account of that one work outfit that we put together so well. I’ll give it to some of us women who are more private and consider showing off outfits on social media silly. However, we all know that at job interviews, court appearances, and heck even family ruins, sometimes dressing the part helps us succeed.

We would never go to a job interview dressed in sweatpants and a tank top. Right?

Now if you have then I’m going to have to take you to the side and talk to you! We are all going to get the Kris Jenner look and get that pants suit or dress on and do what we have to do. We need to dress the part for job interviews and get that money up! Get the wallet fatter and bigger! We all need money to eat!

Boss lady has a certain way she dresses and a certain way she walks

It turns out that you can put on heels and a blazer and turn into boss lady right away. I put on heels, a dress, a blazer, and a belt on at work the other day and co-workers are started asking if I was on track to being promoted. Now, they are asking if I am going to be a supervisor. It is funny, how a little detail to attire, changes people’s complete image of us. If you imagine your CEO or manager, this is the actual boss lady. She carries herself a certain way that screams BOSS. We all know the boss lady. Some of us are boss lady already! Good job! You made it up there! Congratulations!

It turns out that you can put on heels and a blazer and turn into boss lady right away. I put on heels, a dress, a blazer, and a belt on at work the other day and co-workers are started asking if I was on track to being promoted. Now, they are asking if I am going to be a supervisor. It is funny, how a little detail to attire, changes people’s complete image of us. If you imagine your CEO or manager, this is the actual boss lady. She carries herself a certain way that screams BOSS. We all know this woman . Some of us are this woman! Good job! You made it up there! Congratulations!

Can We See Ourselves as Bosses?

We are all bosses in some way shape or form. Some of us our bosses at home. I know some of us reading are actual bosses at our jobs. Some of us are bosses of our own minds and body. In fact, all of us should be bosses of our own mind and body. Maybe some of us do not know this fact yet that we should be actively in control of ourselves. Take a moment and imagine the strongest woman in charge that you know. Now imagine she is you and you are her. How does the image of ourselves change when we think about us being in charge? Feeling more powerful? Did you imagine being richer? Were you imagining feeling happier? As you imagine, keep that image of yourself in mind so that you will remember to be your own boss.

What is a boss anyway?

This is the goal. The goal is to be our own bosses.  It does not necessarily mean that you pay yourself or that we manage our own work. It also does not mean we are the head of a company or even that we have a job. We can actually never work for a salary a day in our lives and still be a boss. Actually, we should keep in mind that we are our own bosses every day. We are bosses of how we look, act, dress, and think.

How to be a Boss effective immediately

There are some things in life that are out of our own control. Sometimes we get sick, sometimes other’s sick, sometimes we get in car accidents, and sometimes we cause car accidents. Life has a way of just happening to us. Some actual bosses whether male or female may be on your back way too much. We cannot control this fact sometimes. Can we other people’s actions all of the time? Some real bosses may actually be twisting our minds to think that we have no power at work. However, we have the most power and the most strength at work, at home, and in between. It is because we know we are the boss of ourselves.

Life has a way of just happening to us. Some actual bosses whether male or female may be on your back way too much. We cannot control this fact sometimes. Can we other people’s actions all of the time? Some real bosses may actually be twisting our minds to think that we have no power at work. However, we have the most power and the most strength at work, at home, and in between. It is because we know we are the boss of ourselves.

Therefore, when we make decisions about what we will or will not do. We know that it is because we are the boss of ourselves. We know that when we decide what to eat, what to wear, and where to go, that is because we are the bosses of our own actions. Choosing to think positively or negatively, because we are the bosses of our minds. Can we pick to work out, eat fried foods, or even swim in the ocean because we are the bosses of our own bodies? Absolutely! There is much that we can control within ourselves.

Did anyone lie to us that we cannot be a boss?

Is anyone telling us that we are not capable? Anyone telling us differently than what know about ourselves? We should feel smart and capable. Knowing our own high worth first will help us know if anyone has mistaken us for less.  if anyone is making us feel less than capable, whether it’s our own bosses, family, friends, or lovers. They are actually creating an illusion that we are not in control. This is an actual imaginary illusion because we are always in control of ourselves. We know better because we are in control of us.

What does being a boss means for our lives?

We are in control of the most valuable and prized possession on this Earth, which is ourselves, our health, our bodies, our minds, and our values. There is no one in the world that can take away what we believe in our minds or the values to which we stand for in our hearts. If we stand for loyalty, courage, or being generous. Who could actually take away those attributes about us? Who could actually steal what we believe about ourselves or about our own actions? Never forget what we stand for in our hearts and know to be true in our minds. The truth is that we are bosses of us! We are #1!

Conclusion

Therefore, keeping the image of the boss lady will always bring us back to the reality of every situation. We don’t have to be Kris Jenner to be the boss. We don’t have to be a boss at work, to be the boss. There are not a lot of things that we can control in this life but there is a huge, powerful, and beautiful being that we are the sole caretakers. This being is in the mirror, behind the glass, waiting for us to realize it’s incredible and everlasting strength. We are boss lady. We were the boss lady all along. Now, go live in your strength Ms. Boss!

About Teri Johnson 20 Articles
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